The link between menopause and divorce

It is increasingly recognised that the symptoms of menopause can change the dynamics of a marriage, often resulting in divorce. In 2022, a research study by the Family Law Menopause Project and Newson Health, found that 73% of women cited menopause as a significant contributory factor in their divorce.

The physical and emotional symptoms of menopause

Perimenopause and menopause tend to affect women in their late 40s to early 60s. Hormonal changes at this stage in a woman’s life include physical symptoms such as night sweats, loss of libido, hot flushes, chronic fatigue and weight gain. While emotional symptoms can involve mood swings, anxiety, depression, brain fog and impaired cognitive abilities.

The importance of communication

During this time, women can feel isolated while their partner often feels frustrated and confused. If possible, set aside specific time to talk honestly with each other about how you are feeling. This can help you both to understand what the other person is going through and may help to alleviate fears that there is no hope for the relationship moving forward.

Seeking professional help

Women suffering from a range of debilitating symptoms should book an appointment with their GP. There is now far more understanding about the biological process of perimenopause and menopause and treatment in the form of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) can help to alleviate some of the symptoms.

Seeking a divorce

If this life stage has intensified cracks in the marriage that were already there and divorce feels like the only option, do find a family lawyer that understands the pressures of midlife, including issues arising as a result of menopause. In these circumstances, mediation, hybrid mediation and collaborative law can be the most beneficial ways to resolve the issues that arise from family breakdown.

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